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"Show me who your friends are and I will tell you who you are"
Anonymous
I am a believer in the Law Of Attraction. I believe that you can, knowingly or unknowingly, attract people or situations into your life. I also believe that old adage: Birds of a feather flock together. So often we ignore this. We don't want to rock the boat and stop hanging with people that we know it isn't in our best interest to kick it with. We don't want to exit from a situation that is toxic because everything else is going so great! We will create excuses or just pass the buck all the way around just so we won't have to confront and be emotionally mature. Are you here? Do you find yourself doing this? Creating excuses for people and their bad behavior(s)?Hanging out with people that you do love, and there isn't anything wrong with loving them, but not really having a good time when you are with them? Wasting time and energy on situations that you know nothing fruitful can grow? Have you gotten to the point where you are asking why? Why have I attracted this situation? Why have I attracted these people? Even if they are related to you! Why do I accept this behavior and what do I need to change to get out of this? That last question is for people that have acknowledged that there is a problem. The Law of Attraction never fails. It's kind of like math: 2 + 2 will always equal 4 and we will always attract who we are. Some don't like to hear this and will reject it, but the equation will always be the same. Change requires honesty and a willingness to be careful with your time and feelings. Is that a little bit of selfishness? Yup. Take the time to 1. Ask yourself why I am with these/this person/people. 2. What do they bring to the table?
3.What do I get out of this relationship? This often sounds mean to people and it shouldn't. Every relationship we have should leave us feeling that there is a give and take of love, ideas and some level of growth! Why is this a bad thing? It isn't! Look, this is where I say to myself and others, GROW UP! Evolve. How is it helping you when you hang with people that sit on sofas and play video games all day? Are they playing because they are professional Gamers? Or are they screaming at the t.v while sitting in their Mama's basement and they don't have a job type friend? I am not saying to not love them, but what do you get from this? Just take care, evaluate and make the needed changes. Every six months check out your circle of friends and watch how as you grow, they will either grow with you or exit stage right. As you grow stronger and more secure in what you want out of life, watch how most negative situations will dissipate and morph into the positive. You just have to be clear and honest as to what you want. Don't be afraid to let go of anything that doesn't have your best interest at heart. Do this and watch your world Change! Wishing you Love and Peace, but mostly Peace.
Anonymous
I am a believer in the Law Of Attraction. I believe that you can, knowingly or unknowingly, attract people or situations into your life. I also believe that old adage: Birds of a feather flock together. So often we ignore this. We don't want to rock the boat and stop hanging with people that we know it isn't in our best interest to kick it with. We don't want to exit from a situation that is toxic because everything else is going so great! We will create excuses or just pass the buck all the way around just so we won't have to confront and be emotionally mature. Are you here? Do you find yourself doing this? Creating excuses for people and their bad behavior(s)?Hanging out with people that you do love, and there isn't anything wrong with loving them, but not really having a good time when you are with them? Wasting time and energy on situations that you know nothing fruitful can grow? Have you gotten to the point where you are asking why? Why have I attracted this situation? Why have I attracted these people? Even if they are related to you! Why do I accept this behavior and what do I need to change to get out of this? That last question is for people that have acknowledged that there is a problem. The Law of Attraction never fails. It's kind of like math: 2 + 2 will always equal 4 and we will always attract who we are. Some don't like to hear this and will reject it, but the equation will always be the same. Change requires honesty and a willingness to be careful with your time and feelings. Is that a little bit of selfishness? Yup. Take the time to 1. Ask yourself why I am with these/this person/people. 2. What do they bring to the table?
3.What do I get out of this relationship? This often sounds mean to people and it shouldn't. Every relationship we have should leave us feeling that there is a give and take of love, ideas and some level of growth! Why is this a bad thing? It isn't! Look, this is where I say to myself and others, GROW UP! Evolve. How is it helping you when you hang with people that sit on sofas and play video games all day? Are they playing because they are professional Gamers? Or are they screaming at the t.v while sitting in their Mama's basement and they don't have a job type friend? I am not saying to not love them, but what do you get from this? Just take care, evaluate and make the needed changes. Every six months check out your circle of friends and watch how as you grow, they will either grow with you or exit stage right. As you grow stronger and more secure in what you want out of life, watch how most negative situations will dissipate and morph into the positive. You just have to be clear and honest as to what you want. Don't be afraid to let go of anything that doesn't have your best interest at heart. Do this and watch your world Change! Wishing you Love and Peace, but mostly Peace.
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