Context and Judgement
It has been a long time since I have gotten into an argument. And I hadn't planned on getting into one, but there I was, defending myself. It was all over me not agreeing with something this person said and they stated that I am judging them. Well, first let me say, to a certain extent we all judge. Yes, we do. One of the definitions for the word judge: to form an opinion about (something or someone) after careful thought . Don't we all form opinions? Is it safe to say with careful consideration? I haven't been prone to make "snap" judgement's, or I don't believe I do. It seems to me that you can't disagree with folks without them calling you judgmental. Do they realize that they are using this word out of context? Or are they? The second definition to judge: : to regard (someone) as either good or bad. Is this a bad thing? Or is this just common sense? Some things ARE bad and some things ARE good. To call something out as one or the other does...